The Fire of Refinement

On April 28, 2018April 28, 2018 By Rebekka LienIn christianity, coach, dating, dream, entrepreneur, faith, forgiveness, God, healing, health, lawofattraction, lifecoach, lifehack, love, Love blog, meditation, philosophy, Relationships, solo travel, spirituality, therapy, travel, writer

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This morning I confronted someone about the way she was talking to me.

I said it hurts me and makes me feel like she doesn’t love me. Basically when someone is mean to me, I cope by being positive and trying to recite truth and all that.

But I felt like God was saying “I want the real you, I want you to feel the emotions and not ignore them or try to be positive”. Stand up and fight this battle.

And then I burst out crying.

It was like emotional hell, my heart couldn’t take it anymore. I was being verbally abused but I had just become numb…since it’s my mom, I thought “I just have to deal with it”.

As you know, in many Asian families emotions like sadness are a sign of weakness. We do not talk about vulnerable things like “it hurts me when you say this”.

Instead, anger is okay for some reason. Like you can be sad and just show it by yelling. Like it doesn’t make sense at all.

Then she replied “do you have depression or something?”

I turned my head and rolled my eyes….this is retarded.

At least I did my part. No apologies from her end. But it’s okay, I don’t feel like I’m dying anymore.

I don’t feel like my heart is swallowing itself anymore.

It’s easy to exit, escape and walk away. It’s easy to move and just not talk to that person, but I feel like in this season God wants us to face those emotional battles.

A lot of people end up alone in life because they don’t want to face the hard emotional battles that come with love.

Love is NOT easy.

Love is well, longsuffering. Love is patient, love is kind, love is….well 1 Corinthians 13:4

⁴Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. ⁵It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. ⁶Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. ⁷It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

This season God is refining me…and perhaps you.

the process of removing impurities or unwanted elements from a substance.

IF God is love then HE IS making me MORE LIKE HIM. God is removing anything in me that is not love. This means, I must also confront the people and things in my life that is NOT treating me with love. And I must Forgive.

Because Forgiveness will loosen my heart from the grips of the devil.

Love and forgiveness are fierce. They are the evidence of Christ in someone’s life. Someone who is able to forgive when they have been fiercely wronged….that is not weakness, that is FIERCE.

Jesus loves me with a fierce love and He is teaching me how to be this fierce love. How do I continue to love someone who constantly hurts me?

Forgiveness.

And sometimes space to recuperate and cry. And boundaries.

I pray God will give you the wisdom and strength to love, confront, to overcome hurt in your relationships.

It’s Time To Leap

On April 8, 2018April 8, 2018 By Rebekka LienIn christianity, dating, dream, entrepreneur, faith, forgiveness, God, healing, health, lawofattraction, love, meditation, prophetic word, relationship, spirituality, therapy, writer

God is breaking off disappointments that are preventing you from believing the best is to come.

As you can see I mention that I was very hurt and bruised from rejection and accusations from people. God had me in hiding for awhile as I healed from those deep wounds, this is often called the wilderness season.

REJECTION, HURT AND DISAPPOINTMENT often causes you TO SECOND GUESS YOURSELF….like “maybe I shouldn’t have drank milk tea today” (aka me today because I totally got heart palpitations and I’ve quit caffeine for a year now) or “maybe I shouldn’t have wasted 2 years of my life with my ex-boyfriend” (aka many people I know, plus me)….BUT I FEEL LIKE EVERY SINGLE EXPERIENCE WE HAVE teaches us WHAT WE WANT and DON’T WANT.

None of our experiences are wasted. Even when we keep going back to our old ways, we will eventually see we don’t want the old thing. God is gentle enough to guide us in our stubbornness.

You haven’t got what you want because you keep saying YES to the old thing. It’s time to say no to what we don’t want so we can say yes to what we truly want.

That is why God is breaking off cycles that keep us in bondage.

That’s besides the point.

The point is NOW IS THE TIME TO LEAP, TO REALIZE IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT that you got hurt. Life hurts sometimes, but since none of us are perfect, we tend to hurt each other, sometimes unintentionally.

And also in whatever state of wisdom we were in, we tend to make decisions based on what we know.

And that’s just that, where we were back then.

But now, you don’t have to second guess yourself anymore.

God has your back, and even if you get hurt again, isn’t that part of life, to feel both pain and joy?

God doesn’t want us to live in a box, safely….God wants us to be able to dig into life with our whole heart.

As SPONTANEOUS as my life seems, I’m actually a very orderly person. I like to sleep between the hours of 10pm-11pm. I do NOT like to stay up late and I do not like alarms. I wake up naturally.

But in this season I wonder why I need to reserve my energy so much? Was it fear that had me sleeping so on time all the time? Fear that I wouldn’t have enough energy? Fear that I wouldn’t be enough?

In Christ all things are possible.

We don’t have to play it safe anymore. We can dig into life and know that Jesus is sufficient for us, that we don’t need to have some kind of “savings account for our heart”.

Life, energy, provision, joy, hope, health never runs out in Jesus.

We can be sure to lean on God and know that He will supply where we lack, because He already paid for our insufficiency. In His eyes, your account has an over payment, forever and forevermore.

Don’t be afraid to step out and take the leap, to make “mistakes” because in God’s eyes there are no mistakes, only steps into more miracles.

Prayers (say out loud):

Forgiveness towards self– “Dear God, today I forgive myself for allowing myself to get hurt. It wasn’t my intention and it traumatized me so much I was not able to move forward. Please break off any disappointments in my heart and remind me that You are a good God, that what you have for me is the best and that you will never leave nor forsake me. Thank you for forgiving me first so I can forgive myself. In Jesus name Amen.”
Prayer of Courage– “Dear God, thank you for releasing me from the past. Today I release anything that isn’t for my highest good, this includes disappointment, bitterness, offense, anger, hurt, people who I know I don’t want to associate with anymore, etc. I break off the spirit of foreboding and pray that you plant in my heart a new joy, a new song, a new hope. I now boldly walk forward because I know you are with me. I am enough in Christ Jesus. In Jesus name, amen.”

Schedule of Events!

On May 21, 2015May 21, 2015 By Rebekka LienIn business, coach, entrepreneurLeave a comment

This past weekend I got to speak at the California Federation Professional and Business Women’s state conference. I got to room with Crystal, who is a heart disease survivor. Her heart is on the right, yah no kidding. She’s had 8 open heart surgeries and she is one of the most AMAZING AND STRONG WOMAN I KNOW!!! IT was a serious blessing to room with her. We even got to dance at Kbar. She gave me a mexican candy PIKA PIKA (see me eating it above). Then you’ll see a photo of us with our awards. Let’s say we had loads of fun and got to speak to a room full of women who needed motivation.

People keep trying to catch me, but it’s tough to. IF you need a coaching session feel free to email me Rebekkalien@gmail.com, speaking inquiries, email me!

Here is my travel/event schedule:

Now until May 23- Norcal, staying in Emeryville. Probably will go to SF on Friday.

May 23 Saturday- Back to LA

June 2 Tuesday- Smart Spiritual Sexy “Not Your Stuck Up” Happy Hour Mixer- REGISTER HERE!

FB INFO- https://www.facebook.com/events/362937250566234/

Open to the public, FREE RSVP, happy hour specials.

June 4-6 Friday- Sunday- Palm Springs, CA- vacation

June 22- Authenticity Rules, Be REAL, BE YOU SEMINAR in LOS ANGELES – Venue to be announced. Register for early bird rate: (By June 1) – https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=XTJQVBH8ZH7E8

Late June- I will probably be overseas! So while you can, attend my seminar June 22. I may be gone for one month.

Ya’ll can get my ebook here: http://www.Rebekkalien.com/lovemoneywork

People ask me how I’m making income—-> read the book.

P{eace!! XOXO BEX

Who Does God Say You Are?

On January 13, 2015 By Rebekka LienIn entrepreneur, faith, law of attractionLeave a comment

A lot of people have messed up views about who God is. I don’t claim to be all knowing of who God is, but I know that I wouldn’t be alive today if it wasn’t for God. I converse with this mystical force that people think is this old bearded man who is super mad all the freaken time. I think of God as love, as beauty, as all knowing, as brilliant, bright, loving, all encompassing, non-judgemental, gentle, funny, light-hearted, truthful, definitely not what people have portrayed him as….he definitely does not hate gay people, I don’t know who the hell made that up.

Anyways, on a more serious note, I’m sure that as 2015 has already progressed into 12 days….many of you are already failing, maybe frustrated that you haven’t seen any breakthroughs. As I was dancing this super fast piece at dance rehearsal, I heard this annoying voice “just leave, you can’t do it”. That’s the voice of darkness. I literally wanted to leave because I was so tired, but something in me told me that I needed to PUSH.

I believe it IS the PUSH season. You need to hold onto who God says you are. Well, your thoughts of who God is maybe already tainted….but let’s just say it’s not…let’s just say that you are starting to get to know a totally loving God, who God totally is….God would say:

“You’re awesome, you’ve already overcome, you are my brightest star, you are more than a conqueror, you win, you always win in your own competition…” etc. Think positive affirmations, but these things are true about you.

As I was dancing, I kept thinking about my moves…omg. I’m totally messing up. The more I thought about my every move, the more I messed up. So I just said “Let’s dance in flow, let the spirit lead”, and in doing so I felt that I started to dance with more expression, more FUN.

So maybe your resolutions haven’t come true, but don’t give up on who God says you are…..an overcomer, a CEO, boss.

Now you may need help along the way, especially if you are surrounded by negative people…you need a cheerleader, a healer, a life coach to guide you. If you feel it in your heart and spirit that I can offer you the help you need— Do not hesitate one minute to book your coaching session RIGHT NOW. I believe that the calling I have on my life, the BOMB digity rewards and breakthrough that are coming are WAY above anything I can imagine…and when you are mentored by me, you will get the same rewards I’ve already received in the spirit.

CLICK NOW and BOOK it, it says that many seeds are planted in a human heart, but not everyone of them grows because some are taken away from negative thinking….will you obey the URGING in your heart?

THE NEW YEARS OFFER of 3 SESSIONS for $149….6 for $299, etc. Is ENDING JANUARY 31, 2015. This is a 3 for 1 deal that will not last. Why is it SO CHEAP? Because I know you’re scared, I know you don’t think you have money, or perhaps you’re too good for this…EVERY limitation outside of you starts from within. So do it.

2015 NEW YEARS Life Coach Special!

On December 31, 2014December 31, 2014 By Rebekka LienIn entrepreneurLeave a comment

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2015 NEW YEAR SPECIALS! (Deal ends January 31, 2015) Limited time specials, usually $150 per session. Let me help you with Love, Dating, Relationships, Work, Life Circumstances, Inner Healing, Personal Growth & Development. Sessions include follow ups, worksheets & invitations to special events and specials to continue your personal growth!

Sessions Expire 1 year from purchase. Non-Transferable. If giving for gifts, please note recipient at checkout. Sessions ARE easy to schedule, simply email me 3 available days/times for session (Lienrebekka@gmail.com) and I’ll reply with chosen time. 🙂

3 Coaching Sessions on Skype/Phone (40 min sessions) – Only $149! (Regularly $450)

6 Coaching Sessions on Skype/Phone (40 min sessions)- Only $299! (Regularly $900)

10 Coaching Sessions on Skype/Phone (40 min sessions) – Only $549 (Regularly $1500)
* Includes Free Event Admission to January 10, 2015 Vision Board Workshop if purchase before Jan 10.

Not ready to commit to 3 + sessions, try out 1 session for only $75 now (Regularly $150)

You don’t want to tell your problems to your friends because they won’t tell you the truth, you don’t want to talk to your mom because she’ll tell you “I told you so”…what you really need is a coach that will tell you the truth & help you achieve your dreams over a cup of coffee (or cyber coffee if over skype).

It’s all about supporting YOU, I’m a coach that will celebrate your every success because it’s about the journey, not just the goal. It’s about WHO you become and what flows out of you is wondrous, spectacular.

We all need someone to speak truth and love into our lives, some of us have never grown up with encouragement. Now you’re an adult and you crave acceptance but also words that will get you fired up to a better life. And you know it’s out there, that better life. You don’t feel like you’re there yet, you’re not happy enough, you’re not successful enough, perhaps you have had relational issues and you can’t let go of past hurts, Your ex is still in your mind, you hate that about yourself.

Maybe you get drunk every weekend to cover up this shit that is REALLY going on inside.

Rebekka’s at your aid, I’m no superwoman but I will tell the truth and nothing but the truth with some humor and laughs. Get your career, life, relationships, goals, inner game together. Whatever you need help with, just say the word. Commit to your happiness today.

TESTIMONIALS:

“I attended one of Rebekka’s workshops and was happy to find out it was not a large group of people sitting in a room listening to a lecture about results that seem impossible to achieve, then having a small amount of time at the end to answer questions. Her workshop was small and interactive, and she was able to take her own knowledge and experience and apply it to each person individually with suggestions that are do-able. Ever since taking the workshop I’ve been re-discovering many of my forgotten talents and realize I can make money from skills I already have and things I already enjoy doing!”

“Rebekka’s workshop inspired me to take action and finally say YES to creating my own workshop and moving forward as an entrepreneur. Her wealth of personal knowledge encourages people to make real changes and she is genuinely interested in each of the group members who come to the workshop. She also has a FB group to help workshop members stay in touch and support each other to growth.”

Rebekka Lien is an Unconventional, Unique, ENERGETIC, personable Motivational Speaker & Consultant. As A German Born Taiwanese, she has lived in Hamburg, Taipei and Los Angeles. She is a multi- lingual world traveler with a background in Design and Business and years of experience in Marketing, Coaching, Business, Design and Consulting.

BLACK FRIDAY DEALS!

On November 24, 2014November 24, 2014 By Rebekka LienIn law of attraction, meditationLeave a comment

Black Friday deals ends December 1!

Hello friends! I’m sitting here in Florence, Italy and am heading to Barcelona tomorrow. In Europe, I have come up with many ideas that were inspired by the road. One of my inventions here was the lifestyle brand Smartspiritualsexy, inspired when I was walking on the streets in Paris. A few ideas came to my mind, I decided to continue teaching Yoga and Meditation for the months of January and February. In late March, I’ll be moving to West Hollywood, hola everyone!!! We’re introducing a speaker’s series and I’ll even throw a FREE EVENT to help inspire people who want to grow in their entrepreneur endeavors.

I’m throwing deals out so YOU can benefit from my travels and inspirations!!

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+ Learn how you can build a business around what you love

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Buy NOW! CLICK HERE 🙂

The universe is moved by your meditation.

1 hour of meditation is worth more than 7 hours of physical labor.

What I mean by that is that your inner life and intentions form your reality. Your thoughts are things. What you are, you manifest. I’ve learned this from the past 3 years being self-employed. I had to let go and reprogram my mind to succeed. You see, growing up I was constantly sent the message that I wasn’t enough. I had low self-worth and didn’t feel like I deserved much in life, especially in my finance. Later on, I studied up on law of attraction and attended many conferences, such as Tony Robbin’s. I realized that my finance was heavily linked to what I thought I was worth.

Are YOU ready to become who you really are?

You see, our spirits are constantly battling with reality. Our spirit knows who we really are, but sometimes our reality does not match up to who we really are and we question our worth. If you are ready to become greater, better, more AT PEACE with yourself and manifest your dream life…..EASILY and GRACEFULLY, without any work on your part…simply by committing to one hour of yoga and meditation per week, you’ll start to see a shift in your consciousness and reality.

You’ll see that your spirit will start to match with your reality. You’re meant for greatness.

The Yoga and Meditation Course takes place in San Marino (Los Angeles) and begins January 10, 2014, every Saturday 7-8pm. Register now for only $89 per month (deal ends December 1, 2014). Invite your friends!

Your Entrepreneur Coach, Manifest Your Dreams With Ease and Grace

Put In An Order For The Life You Want

On November 23, 2014November 23, 2014 By Rebekka LienIn law of attractionLeave a comment

Are you frustrated about your life and totally discontent over where you are in life?
Well, did you put in an ORDER yet? Do you know what you want from life? And do you know WHY you want it? Listen to my newly inspired podcast about why there are certain goals that do not come to pass and why it’s important to know EXACTLY what you want just as you would tell a Ticketmaster that you want to see Justin Timberlake in Los Angeles in concert or that you want a ticket to France on January 15, 2015 (examples).

Ebook on Sale Now- www.Rebekkalien.com/Lovemoneywork

2 FREE YOGA MATS LEFT! Register For YOGA & Meditation Class!

On April 27, 2014April 27, 2014 By Rebekka LienIn self- reflection, UncategorizedLeave a comment

Begins Thursday May 15, 2014, every thursday ( 7pm-8pm) until June 5 located in Los Angeles!

REGISTER TODAY –http://manifestyoga.eventbrite.com/
First 3 Paid SIGN UPS for all 4 weeks receive a FREE YOGA MAT! There are 2 more left!!

Objectives:

Clarify your vision, goals, dreams, and gain a sense of peace and joy.
Heal from physical and emotional wounds
Let go of hindrances and blockages that are keeping goodness, abundance, health and wealth from you!
Get physically fit and loosen tension so you can activate your dreams in your daily life with energy!

Manifest lasting Peace, Happiness, Health and Wealth As Rebekka guides you in Meditation and Yoga!

This 4 week course will change your life, I guarantee it 1000%. As long as you are willing to let go, you can fill your life with goodness, happiness, and joy.

With 1 Hour of Meditation and Yoga, you will manifest what will usually takes you 8 hours or a lifetime of unfocused work and striving.

This has been proven for me as I quit my job 3 years ago and started manifesting success and happiness in my own life, NOT THROUGH STRIVING, but THROUGH hours of mindset changes, reflection, learning and meditation. You will also experience physical and emotional healing, I can guarantee it.

Find clarity and peace as I guide you in releasing untruth (or lies) that has led to emotional and physical tension.

I have been coaching and teaching more than 10 years, my life experience and journey of truth and love has compelled and driven me to teach the truths of abundance and love.

The first 3 that sign up for the 4 week course will get a FREE yoga mat!

Based on enrollment, there may be a manifest Party at the end! I will advise!

Your Life Guru,
Rebekka Lien
REGISTER TODAY –http://manifestyoga.eventbrite.com/

Facebook Invite- https://www.facebook.com/events/638564862889009/

13 Days of Meditation- Day 6- Your Life Is Lived From The Inside Out

On September 21, 2013September 21, 2013 By Rebekka LienIn entrepreneur2 Comments

Your Life Is Lived From The Inside Out

Somethings won’t change until you change on the inside.

Until you forgive that one person you need to forgive, until you let go of an outcome that is actually limiting you.

Until you let go and let the universe. Until you relax a little bit.

Until you forgive yourself a little more, until you give yourself a break and let go of that pedestal you put yourself on.

Somethings just won’t change until your inner world changes.

Have faith and you will see the outer world change with the force that is unstoppable.

Lately, I have been convincing a friend to pursue his dreams. It seems almost impossible to help him make the next step. This friend seems to want to know what his life will look like after he takes that next step. He wants to know the day to day tasks that he has to complete in his newfound freedom, a new career. I am in awe of this.

And I find that most people do want to know everything, from what will happen next to what will happen in the next 10 years. We chart our lives as though we can predict it….but as much as we plan, we won’t be able to change our circumstances if we still live in a spirit of lack, a spirit of jealousy, a spirit of hate and bitterness. We must become aware that we carry these heavy spirits which stop us from moving forward in life.

We will achieve one thing after another without true happiness.

We will still feel that gnawing emptiness.

We must seek something deeper, something more substantial, something we can’t buy, something spiritual.

Seek and you will find.

I am on this journey with you friend!

Your journey friend,

Rebekka

“Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, or worn. It is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace & gratitude.” – Denis Waitley

How To Set Boundaries

On June 23, 2013 By Rebekka LienIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

Are you stressed out trying to meet other peoples’ expectations?
There is a difference between living in excellence and meeting other peoples’ demands which are rooted in their own negative energy.

In the end, we can only control ourselves and our own emotions and feelings.
In this audio I talk about setting boundaries in your career, relationships and life. I was lucky enough to have read the Book Boundaries by John Townsend when I was young, this helped me to take blame and guilt off of me when other people tried to blame me. I also learned to live in freedom versus expectations of how others should be.

What are some boundaries you need to set in your life?
Career? Relationships? Yourself?

Rebekka Lien,
Realtor & Unlock Your Destiny Coach

www.rebekkalien.com
www.twitter.com/rebekka_lien

Success flows to me.

Success finds me.

I welcome success.

My life is full of peace, joy and love.

I am full with success.