Writing from Nelson, New Zealand
Another day of following the Holy Spirit with my bag and suitcase.
Not comfortable. Last night I woke up in the middle of the night and just went to pray, I couldn’t stop crying. I didn’t have enough for a hostel the next day and today the Lord said “It’s time to move on”. I prayed for a few people and told my testimony to an English guy.
Dying to myself is so hard.
I want to be comfortable, I want to have the security of finances, but I have to trust God alone.
R represents me, G is God.
R- I’m scared that you will leave or abandon me. I can just imagine the worse case scenario, me lying on the street.
G- Trust me. I am leading you to the lost sheep. My ways are not your ways. I know you want to know how it’s going to happen, but my ways are not your ways.
R- Why me?
G- Because you are willing.
R- But it’s difficult.
G- In your weakness my strength is made perfect.
“Concerning this thing I pleaded with the Lord three times that it might depart from me. 9 And He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. 10 Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in needs, in persecutions, in distresses, for Christ’s sake. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” – 2 Corinthians 12:8-10
R- I tried everything didn’t I? I tried to fundraise, I tried couchsurfing. But your ways are not mine, so though my heart is unwilling, I submit to your ways.
G- Flow with my Spirit. I know that you want to run away, like Jonah. But you’re choosing to stay. Remember when you watched “Married At First Sight”? You have a choice to STAY OR LEAVE…yet every time you’re choosing to STAY. You’re choosing the safe path of following me. Though everyone else may think this is the unsafe and unsecure path, you are choosing the only path that matters, the path of life, the path of the Kingdom, my path.
This all makes sense now. Before I left Los Angeles to follow Jesus in search of lost sheep, to share Jesus with people….I kept having dreams about getting married.
I had dreams that I was wearing a wedding dress and getting ready on an airplane.
This was saying “Yes” the the Ring, the dress, the commitment to God. This was believing that God had the best intention for me, that His heart is love for me.
That as a husband, God will never leave nor forsake me.
So I’m not alone, though I may feel that everyone else has abandoned me.
I am so thankful for the people that continue to pray and support me on this journey, but nothing compares to the presence of God. People are not constantly next to me to root me on. People are not there 24 hours to pray with me. Sometimes I feel like I really can’t go on anymore, I feel petrified. I have a few dollars, I don’t know what will happen but I’m choosing intimacy with God.
The Lord has just drawn me to a place of closer intimacy with His heart.
G- I will do and go anywhere for one person, will you do that? Will you pour out your life for the sake of one?
R- yes I do and will.
G- You are my faithful warrior. Don’t give up, be brave and bold for I am with you.
Yesterday I prophesied over a Thai man, I saw him doing graphic design. He was shocked. He asked me how I knew as he just returned from Wellington (where he was doing graphic design)- I said Jesus showed me.
G- You’re bringing them closer to me. The revelation of who I am, love.
R- What about me Lord?
G- I will never leave nor forsake you. Be brave and move forward. Walk in my spirit. Walk forward even when you don’t know what will happen.
R- I will hold your hand even when my heart is fearful. I will hold your hand into the dark, as you are my light.
Give to the work of the Kingdom, to saving souls and changing lives. Thank you so much for your continual support.
Breaking out of fear of lack: This journey recently has really challenged me to live like today is my last day. To not worry about tomorrow. There are times money is so tight I worry about the next day and God is just like – use what you have for today and tomorrow I will provide for where you will stay and what you will eat.
It’s literally living without fear of anything. Fear of danger, fear of lack, fear of tomorrow. When we are children, we learn to rely on our parents. It’s a given, we don’t think about it. But when we grow up we are taught to be self-sufficient. We are afraid to ask for help, we think it’s shameful to not be able to be independent. But none of us are meant to be self-sufficient. God wants us to be like children at all times.
God is our father and He will provide all things according to His riches in glory.
So don’t clamp onto what He already gave you. Use it and He will provide more.
Our fear of tomorrow often has us holding onto what needs to be used for today, and we never really step into our purpose or destiny because we are worried about a future that never comes.
I see kids playing at the arcade and I’m reminded how kids rarely have a lot of money but when they run out they ask their parents for more.
God wants us to live like this in perfect faith that he will always provide when we run out.
God doesn’t want us to be self sufficient he wants us to be like children.
As I was writing this I saw a girl dancing in Burger King. Right before I found myself singing to the Burger King songs playing and she started singing too.
I had just moved to another hostel today and was feeling lack because I had $20 NZD left for food that day (and just in general and in total). I was worried about tomorrow and where I would stay. I was thinking about tomorrow but not having the energy for today (as the thoughts of lack was pressing down on me and weighing on my heart, truthfully there are just days I doubt that God will come through for me and my mind goes to worse case scenario).
However, there was a man on the opposite bunk bed that was hiccuping. I asked to pray for him and I said “I see you surfing” and he said “yes I surf, is it because you saw my tattoo?” and he turned his forearm. There was a tattoo of waves. I said “no, I didn’t see that at all”.
After that, I was like….I need to get out of this funk and just use my money in faith. So I decided to go to Burger King and have a meal. I guess God wanted me there to meet these girls.
I felt like I needed to pray for these 3 girls, 14 year old high schoolers.
They had such unjaded confidence, perhaps the type of confidence I once had but am finding again.
I ended up praying for them and telling them my testimony and journey. Truthfully sometimes when I pray for people, I am actually learning more from them than anything. They were all Christians too.
I remember when I was 14. I wanted to change the world and I believed that I could. I had a heart for women, and I wanted to rescue women from human trafficking. I thought that anything was possible.
I am slowly believing that again, but life sometimes have a way of getting you down.
All things are possible with God.
Anything is possible.
Help us to have a hope of a 14 year old.
Dear God- I pray that you will help our hearts to trust you completely, as children. I pray that we will not rely on ourselves, but the heavenly Father who richly provides. I pray that you will rid our hearts of the fear of lack. So often we grow up relying on our parents but when it comes time we move out and we think we have to be self-sufficient.
But God you desire us to be like little children, daily trusting you.
God today we trust you completely. You’ve never let us down. Rid our minds of the fear of the future. Our future is in your hands, not ours. You are our Father and you provide for us. Thank you for loving us. In Jesus name Amen!
When the disciples saw this, they rebuked them. But Jesus called the children to him and said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. Truly I tell you, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.”
It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery. -Galatians 5:1
Jesus wasn’t afraid of what others think when He died on the cross for you, naked while people spit on Him, laughed at Him.
Jesus wasn’t afraid of what others think when He defended the prostitute.
Jesus wasn’t afraid of what others think when He put mud in a blind man’s eyes and healed him.
Jesus wasn’t afraid of what others think when He walked away from His friends to spend time with God.
God is challenging me EACH DAY to be bold and to LOVE boldly…whether it’s approaching a couple, total strangers or praying for youngsters who are scared of what people think of them.
Overcoming The Fear of What People Think-
Today I prayed for a few people.
There was a couple and the Lord asked me to pray for them. When I asked to pray for them they said “no it’s okay” and I looked to the wife and she said the same thing.
So I said “The Lord just wants you to know that He hasn’t forgotten you and He will fulfil His promises”.
Then I walked away.
The truth is the Lord is always EXPANDING my courage. I went to the apple store to see if I can afford a phone but they were all above my budget. Then I prayed for the salesperson who helped me. I said “I see you riding a bike and doing twirls”. He said “HM I don’t ride bikes”. I said “step out of your comfort zone and do something you’ve never done before because you are used to routine and like routine but the Lord is with you”.
And he said “wow you are right on the spot”.
There was a lady in Cotton On – I saw Jesus handing her a rose and I said “are you in a season of love?” She said “I just got married!” LOL.
Then at the bus stop I prayed for 2 young girls. I said “I see you laughing and playing”. They laughed “WE LAUGH so much”. But then I said “I saw people scolding you”. They said “YES omg people don’t like us at school”.
I said “keep being yourself and don’t let the haters shade your shine. The Lord made you this way”.
I saw two young man, maybe in high school with skater clothes. I got on the same BUS as them.
ALL OF A SUDDEN HOLY SPIRIT gave me courage and I asked them what their names were. They laughed, they were looking around to see if anyone was watching (fear of men).
I then got up and sat next to one of the guys.
I asked if I could pray for them. Milli said “no but you can pray for him”. So I prayed for Dewey and saw he was skating. I asked if he skated, he said no. I said he will. Then as I was talking to Dewey, Milli said “can you pray for me?” So I did.
I said “I see you drawing”. He said “I do weed, do you?”
I said “I used to” and then we talked about weed. I know. It was real. And then they started to open up more. These young people don’t have good examples or role models.
Dewey even waved back when I waved at him outside the bus. I just felt Jesus within me want to sit with them and not budge. I felt the LOVE of JESUS so strongly to mother/father them. That Jesus DOESN’T BUDGE, even when we are ashamed of Him, even when we are scared to BE SEEN WITH HIM because these boys were looking around scared of what people thought of this crazy lady praying for them.
Give- Consider sowing into the kingdom and into the hearts of people around the world.
Writing from Perth, Australia- I have been through insurmountable circumstances on my journey, sometimes a sadness sinks in where I miss home, I miss my family. I’ve been away for 7 months and have barely talked to my family. The truth is I know that even the closest family member does not understand kingdom work.
And that’s okay.
I had to process the sadness and just sit with God.
I could hear Him say “I am enough for you”.
There are times we throw ourselves at friends, family, new friends, videos, phones, movies, shopping- anything but God.
We long for intimacy with our creator but we turn to everything but God. This journey has forced me to lean into God.
As much as I love the family I am staying with, I knew this morning that the Holy Spirit was telling me that it was time to move on. You are enough, you are not lacking. My longing for a family or to belong can only be satisfied by God.
I belong to God and God is my family.
People might understand you and love you, but only the Creator knows you from the inside out.
I wanted to stay here for a month, I wanted to continue in comfort but the Lord said “it’s time to move on, you’ve finished your work here”. My work was to prophesy to the ones I need to prophesy to. And instead of getting a phone with the money my mom gave me to buy a phone, I got a ticket to the next place the Lord was calling me to.
I felt a tinge of sadness. When am I ever going to get a phone?
The Lord asked me “why do you want a phone?”
“So I can have all access at anytime, to my friends and family”.
“I am enough for you”- He says.
He said that I will get a phone soon but then I needed to address the deeper longings. I’ve been officially without a working phone since October (since Japan). I know it seems impossible to travel without a phone but God has somehow made a way. I either borrow peoples’ phones or laptops or like today, I went to Big W (equivalent of walmart) and used their display phone.
I’m not kidding. I booked a flight on a display phone.
All things are possible with God.
Sometimes we think we are lacking something when in fact, we have everything we need to move forward.
That act of faith was in fact a breakthrough moment.
This night my friend told me a sister has decided to sow finances. Sometimes the breakthrough doesn’t come until we take that step of faith. Sometimes we are waiting for God to provide when HE will only provide if you trust Him and act on His word.
Today I stopped someone at the mall and said “can I pray for you”. She said “how did you know I was lost….in life”.
I said “holy spirit”.
I prayed for her and saw people attacking and accusing her and I said that even so she must follow her heart. That the Lord is with her.
She started crying and said that she just left a broken marriage. That she loved her kids.
I said that she is in a season where she is finding her worth and identity.
On the bus the Lord pointed me to a young woman who had 4 kids. I then prayed for her. I asked her where her parents are and she said she had none, that she was a foster kid. She is 18 years old, has one kid of her own about 2 years old, 3 that are foster kids and she lives with a boyfriend who is 22 and refuses to work while she works.
I don’t even know how my heart can handle these stories but I have to lean in harder into God and focus on the finished work of the cross.
Give- Consider sowing into the kingdom and into the hearts of people around the world.
Today I watched Dr.Phil talk to a woman who had almost been killed 2 times by her husband. He brought in a woman who had been set on fire by her husband. This woman warned the other woman.
“Do you believe you are worthy?” Dr. Phil said.
Often times we live out what we believe about ourselves and when we don’t grow up with right examples, we live out our inner reality.
The other day I was at a mall and the Lord asked me to pray for a cleaner. After I prayed for her I noticed she had a black eye and asked her about it. She said “bad decisions”. “Is it a guy?” I asked. “yes”. She looked down. I said that if she left the guy the Lord will be with her to provide for her and to help her. That she is NEVER alone.
Then another day I was on a train and started to talk to a woman who was in a relationship with a man who called her names, names that you wouldn’t want anyone to call your daughter or friend. I told her approximately 10 times that she needed to break up with him.
But I understand this all too well. I didn’t see my dad for 10 years and the unworthiness factor made me long for a guy’s attention. This manifested in dating the wrong guys, jerks, or putting myself in situations that were dangerous.
It was only until my ex, and meeting a lot of jerks that I finally said to God “I want nothing but you”.
I stopped dating and suddenly all the jerks, guys disappeared from my life. Even cute guys disappeared from the street. They just didn’t appear at all.
Nothing and no one could have told me to stop, it was my feeling of “I’ve HAD ENOUGH” that caused me to stop wanting unsavory food.
Falling in LOVE with God is a process. We don’t just fall in love with God, we have to make decisions that draw us closer to God. We have to let go of our own agendas, our own choices to allow God near our hearts. God will not break down your wall, you have to let Him in.
I’ve been single for 5 years. I’ve liked or been attracted to guys in the middle but essentially I said to God “you and you alone until you bring me my husband”.
This means crying to God when I feel alone, this means relying on God when money is dry, this means relying on God for protection on the road, this means telling Him my inner fears and rants.
Sanctification is a process. I’m not perfect, far from it. I’m weak but God is strong for me.
I wish I knew my worth back then but everything I’ve gone through taught me how to value myself. I am glad that God protected me enough that I didn’t get hurt to the extent that most people do. One thing I committed to myself was that I was going to save myself for marriage. I still did things that compromised my worth but never again.
When you’ve been through enough you’ll know when it’s time to turn to God alone. God is a better man than anyone will ever be for you. He will take care of you and your needs. He is attentive and He listens when others don’t.
He will ease all your fears and He is reliable, He is trustworthy.
He is a good father, a good husband, a good friend.
“I love you. I will never leave nor forsake you. I am a good husband. I will take care of you. I will not cheat on you. I will hold your hand through the thick and thin. I will hold your heart in the palm of my hands and I will never let go. I am attentive to your needs and desires, I will not forsake you. I promise you this”- God
For your Maker is your husband—
the Lord Almighty is his name—
the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer;
he is called the God of all the earth.
The Lord will call you back
as if you were a wife deserted and distressed in spirit—
a wife who married young,
only to be rejected,” says your God.
“For a brief moment I abandoned you,
but with deep compassion I will bring you back.
In a surge of anger
I hid my face from you for a moment,
but with everlasting kindness
I will have compassion on you,”
says the Lord your Redeemer.
The perfect husband is Jesus.
Give- Consider sowing into the kingdom and into the hearts of people around the world.
I realized this morning that I’m scared of happiness. I’m scared to be happy.
All my life I lived in the shadows of a broken home and unworthiness seemed to follow me wherever I went.
I started to see my worth when I understood grace, a finished work that required no work of my own but that Jesus finished the work for me.
Yet when I see a happy couple or family, my heart is doubtful.
I want to find flaws and I want to know they’ve struggled, I want to see brokenness, I want to know I’m not the only one who has struggled or is struggling.
At the same time I don’t want my pessimism to touch them, to infect their happiness.
I just heard the Lord say “you are enough, you are not lacking”.
I deserve happiness and I deserve to be loved. I deserve to have.
I am worthy. I am worthy. I am worthy.
Growing up I felt like God owed me a great deal for the way I grew up. I was always fighting to survive. There was always a conflict, a struggle, a battle and I often felt restless.
I felt uncomfortable in my own skin, unable to feel like myself in this world.
Just receive, sometimes it’s easier to give than to receive. Because to receive you must believe you are worthy of it.
But when you feel unworthy, you’ll refuse the help.
Sometimes we’re afraid to give because we’re afraid we will lack or not have enough.
Both comes from a fear of lack.
But in Christ we are whole and not lacking and only in loving can we understand grace, that it is all sufficient and not lacking.
Your worth isn’t in how you grew up, what situation or circumstance you are in now. Your worth is in being a child of God, knowing Jesus died for you to make you whole.
They don’t have more than you do- the ones you think have more financially, relationally, etc.
You have everything you need to do what you need to do.
My friend told me she felt depressed as she is unmarried, broke and traveling but the truth is she has everything that she needs- Jesus.
Even though I’m living in a beautiful house, I am a beautiful house.
I am the beautiful car, I am the delicious food, I am a happily married couple.
I am everything that I could ever want.
That is wholeness…realizing you are enough and you are not lacking.
You might be divorced, without income, childless, unmarried, but you are not less than those with a happy family.
God died for you in whatever circumstance you’re in and he made you pure as snow, whole, not lacking.
He filled every imperfection, discrepancy, every hole, every feeling of lack and said you are complete.
You are not complete when you have more, you are not complete when your bills are paid, you are not complete when you get married, you are not complete when your kids are grown, you are not complete when you’re disease free- you are complete and whole NOW because of the BLOOD OF JESUS.
The danger in accruing blessings is that we start to think our worth is based on what we have when the truth is our worth comes from the finished work of Jesus.
You are blessed when your parents disapprove or approve of you.
You are blessed when you are in need or not in need.
You are blessed with or without a husband/wife.
You are blessed whether you are in the greatest or worst shape of your life.
You are blessed whether you have debt or not.
You are blessed because of the blood of Jesus. In the Spirit al is finished. That is our true identity as Kings and Queens.
We need to see people for who they really are. We call and prophesy people into who they really are- not by taking pity.
Even if you never preach like TD Jakes- you are whole and enough.
Even if your ministry never becomes as big as Hillsong, you are enough.
Even if no one knows or recognizes you for your service to God and people, you are enough.
Even if you don’t write a book, you are enough.
Even if you are a backstage person and the lime light never shines on you, you are enough.
Even if no church affirms or approves of what God put on the inside of you, you are enough.
God will use the unexpected people to show His power because it’s not by might or flesh, but by the power of the Spirit. So if you are young or old, you feel like a failure, you feel like your life has fallen apart and you feel ashamed of your past- know that God’s power is most mighty in the ones who have no power of their own, no ability of their own. We have to get back to being a child of God, being unable on our own, being fully reliant on Jesus our savior.
Thank you for those who have been ministry partners and have been sending me out in obedience to the Lord. I pray the Lord protect and bless you.
Consider sowing into the kingdom and into the hearts of people around the world.