I woke up feeling a bit nauseous, I wasn’t sure what was happening.
I could hear my mom chopping vegetables and she was trying to cook. But then I felt fear in my heart for some reason. What is this. I heard “witchcraft”. I went outside to make a live video to pray and I heard God say “go out to eat”.
Now some of you might be thinking “omg isn’t that super evil?”
Well “witchcraft” is basically when we don’t let go of control and try to control our lives due to fear of the unknown.
When I went back in my mom yelled “I spilled the eggs, I’m going out”. She was angry because I said I wanted to be alone and it is possible she may have overheard my prayer session outside.
I got sick a couple of days ago and I made the mistake of kind of blaming my mom for it. I said that she was accusing and yelling at me and because of that I didn’t feel comfortable at home and was going out and staying out a lot. I felt like she didn’t want me at home. Of course it was a spirit of lack attacking me making me feel less than (and unloved by her).
Well, perhaps she felt bad so she eased up on the accusations but then tried to “make me happy” instead.
Well, that basically didn’t work, because each day I started to feel that she was doing things out of guilt.
I’ve been processing and crying a lot, but then I guess she felt bad for me.
She woke up and started striving- cooking….you would think “awww that’s so nice”, but God has given me a level of discernment I didn’t realize before.
Doing nice things for others can be out of “fear”.
I am afraid she is not feeling well, so I’ll cook for her.
I am afraid they are in pain, so I will do everything I can for her to make her feel better.
When we don’t let go of control of others and trust them to God we are playing God, we are essentially doing “witchcraft” because we want to be the ones to heal them.
I realize I was wrong to blame my mom for not going home early each day. But because she was trying to control me and my life, I did not feel free and needed to be out.
I realize that may be why people cheat, because they feel no freedom in that relationship. Control plays a devastating effect on relationships.
It’s not your fault that you’re trying to help people. Helping people is a great thing, but remember don’t do it to play God.
Please understand the difference between love and guilt.
God does not call us to do things out of obligation. I found this comic online. It really freaked me out how true this way. I pray that God set us all free from these codependent guilt tripping relationships. May we live freely out of love.
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Rebekka Lien 