resolutions – Rebekka Lien

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The beauty of life actually lies in the act of daily surrender.

As crazy as people say I am, the more I live a life of surrender, the more I realize how limited my thinking is. I cannot begin to comprehend how God works and that is just the beauty of it. I’m dumb as fuck compared to God.

Life becomes enjoyable when we admit that our wisdom is beyond limited and God’s unimaginably creative and mind blowing.

By letting go of control, we get to partner with God in creating art out of our lives, to feel deeply each emotion, to play, to have fun, to create a rich life of love.

I am lost for words, sometimes unable to even express the plethora of emotions that is in my heart. I will go days feeling the tensions and not knowing how to face my truth.

It is in admitting “I don’t know why that happened, why nothing happened according to my preconceived notion of what should have happened, and why I even had that notion in the first place’ and maybe that I’m disappointed, scared that life is unpredictable, uncontrollable….

That my heart can finally release it’s grip.

It is okay that I don’t know.

It is okay that I may have been disappointed, but I want to continue learning how to surrender to God’s infinite ways of life.

Nowadays, grace is not so popular. Not knowing is so unpopular, there is an answer for everything. But I don’t always know what is going on and I’m okay with it. God’s got it, God has it figured out, He knew me before I was born.

I might not know where I’m going geographically even in the next month, and it upsets people. They want to make plans with me, but I can’t. My loyalty isn’t to them. My loyalty is to God. Make plans with me in the next week, but after that, I don’t know where I’m going. If I feel RIGHT about something, I will commit to doing it, but if I don’t feel RIGHT in my heart about it, I won’t. I have an inner compass. Being loyal to your vision makes you uncontrollable, free.

So don’t feel bad that life didn’t go the way you predicted, perhaps your get married by 30 plan, career plan, etc. Life is better in a daily act of surrender. Surrender never felt so sweet.

(pic above is in SF, my mom and I went on a last minute trip).

Living in divine agenda is very easy. The first thing is to listen, to ask, to listen.

I create my life everyday based on what I hear. I spend an hour meditating everyday, minimum. These are questions I ask:

“What should I focus on today, what is the divine agenda today?” I try not to wake up with urgencies or the rush to get to something because that derives from fear. Today I hear “focus on yourself” and focus on writing. Why is my life method so different from other people and other life coaches? Because I know that the “ambitious just get it done” life is not blissful, it’s based on duty. I choose to follow my bliss and where there is pleasure, there is profit. Where there is ease, there is life.

I choose very carefully how I spend my time and with who.

As an enlightened highly conscious human being, people try to vent to me. I ask them to consider booking coaching sessions with me. Unless you have entered into my inner circle, I don’t allow you to throw garbage at me, that is part of being a focus, conscious person. If I am running around listening to peoples’ crap all day, I will not have energy to do the divine agenda of the day….and it’s the divine agenda that is most important because THAT is what I will reap from and that will benefit people the most. It’s a win win.

But most people have a hard time saying “no”. That is why you need a divine plan for 2015.

1. First thing is to know your vision.

My vision is to BE, BE authentic to myself and to empower others to live their authentic truth.

2. Second thing is to target your priorities for 2015.

a. My first priority is to nurture my heart and listen to my inner beauty and health

b. Nurture and feed my inner circle and be nurtured by them- remember people who are in your inner circle understand boundaries and also honor your heart, they aren’t judgmental but also tell you the truth to improve your being.

c. Divine work- Follow my bliss, 1. The arts- acting, writing, creating, books The Bex Show 2. Real Estate- to house and love people. You can get my ebook: How To Make Money Doing What You Love NOW!

As a direct correlation to a-c, profit flows freely and easily.

3. Live each day according to number 1, vision and 2, what your priorities are.

When an activity or a friend calls, ask yourself if it aligns with your current state of beauty and health. If you need time to recuperate or to be, say no. If you feel a divine push to go, there may be a divine encounter to be had. Have complete and utter focus but also allow yourself to have fun, because remember there is no profit where there are no pleasures to be had.

You ask, that’s not a business plan….yes, well it’s my business plan. I’ve been an entrepreneur my whole life and I can say that I’ve finally honed my inner knowing. I know when I’m too exhausted to entertain guests, I know when I’m ready to take over a dance floor, I know when my heart is crying for relaxation or adventure. I follow my bliss, but I’m also highly disciplined.

Watch Episode 8- the Divine Hustle, The Divine Play, The Strategic Play in 2015.