I’ve been on dates where the guy was checking out other girls, but this guy wasn’t like that. His eyes did not stray from mine.
I always felt like I had to fight for attention, or fight to be seen or understood but now I finally understand how it feels to be seen and heard.
You shouldn’t fight to be seen or heard by a guy. You shouldn’t have to ask for attention or time, he should want to spend as much time as possible with you. He shouldn’t run when times get tough. He should stick it out.
I learned that today.
Emotional availability is important.
Is he emotionally available?
It takes time to see if they are.
If you are already fighting for their attention on the first date, run. You should feel secure in his love for you.
If you would like to talk or need coaching, dm me on instagram! Rebekkalien is my IG account. God bless you!