It’s Not You, It’s Him. Okay, maybe it is you.


I’ve been inspired to write a lot more lately! It’s pretty awesome to be inspired.

I’d like to write a bit about relationships.

I see a lot of woman go through rejection because a guy has totally ghosted or disappeared into thin air. Remember….some wise advice from Bex:

1. Someone is unable to love you if he does not love himself. This has nothing to do with you. It’s not because you are not smart, pretty, charming enough, it’s because his heart is not capable, not big enough for the love you desire.

2. Okay, maybe it is you. Maybe you are the one with the closed heart and you’ve self-sabotaged love by purposely saying hurtful things to drive your partner away. Let love start from the inside. 

3. Healing starts from within. As I’ve accepted the unconditional love that comes from an infinite source, I’ve found that on earth, our relationships are reflective of our inner world. Some people are attracted to the light within, it doesn’t mean you have to be in a relationship with them…it just means they desire what you have within. 

4. Heal childhood wounds- We all carry father or mother wounds, even in subtle ways. Sometimes this carries over to our career and relationships. We don’t feel like we’re enough, good enough. We sabotage relationships because we saw that in our parents’ relationships….Listen to my soundcloud below!

We accept the love we think we deserve. Until you come to true awareness of your infinite worth and love….you will accept less than. 


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