I think it’s very disparaging when people say that woman only want men for the money because that is not true at all. If a woman only wants a guy for their money then obviously she is not emotionally mature enough.
A truly fulfilling relationship requires each person to be vulnerable about their weakness about what they fear about. What’s going on in their mind. I grew up without a father. I did not see my father for 10 years so I had no emotional connection with him whatsoever. When I went to visit him for the first time, he gave me a bunch of broken cameras and some cash, but I felt nothing for him because I didn’t want his money-I didn’t want his broken cameras. I wanted emotional connection. I wanted him to tell me that he was sorry for not seeing me for 10 years.
I think it is so harmful that men think that women only want them for the money because that is just not true. Do you think these girls that grew up without their father want your money? No, they want emotional connection.
Maybe some of these girls say that they want money but truly they want emotional connection. Maybe their heart isn’t even even open to emotional connection because they think men will hurt them and abandon them.
But please man please hear me out because woman just want you to be vulnerable with them.
The truth is we all base our worth on something right…like how much we have what we look like how we dress or make up or status or fame you know popularity we all base our worth on something…
Not everyone is the same, so yah don’t group men or women. I’ve learned that.
Rebekka Lien 